I feel like I need to do a PSA about possible side effects of vasectomies because I didn't know there were any. Dave has had some pretty serious health issues over the last 3 months that required multiple visits to 4 doctors, a hospitalization, and plenty of antibiotics. It turns out that Dave has had several different ailments. He is being treated and we are optimistic that this course of treatment will actually cure his condition. The doctor believes he has prostatitis. Fortunately it is treatable infection of the prostate. He will need antibiotics for 6 weeks. And if we have an anthrax attack, we will be safe since he is on the same meds for that. Prostatitis is a really hard to diagnose condition and can be stubborn to treat.
Dave has been having genital pain for over 3 months. During this time he saw multiple doctors, who made him feel like he was crazy and making up the pain because they could not define its cause. During this time, no one checked his prostate. When he saw the 5th doctor last week, he was shocked that no one had checked it before. Doctors seem to need to be more aware of this condition too, considering what Dave went through to get diagnosed.
Before he got his diagnosis, both Dave and I searched the internet to see if anyone had had similar conditions. We both discovered that some men experience Post Vasectomy Pain. (Click here to read an ABC radio show transcript about this.) No one ever mentioned this before he had his vasectomy several months ago. When I had both my planned and unplanned Cesarean sections, I signed a waiver that covered every side effect you could think of including death. I understand that this condition effects a small percentage of vasectomy patients but it should be mentioned. I thought it was only fair for Dave to have a vasectomy, since it is suppose to be a minor surgery for men (versus a tubal ligation) but I would never had Dave get a vasectomy if I knew that this could occur. Men who have PVP have constant pain that only seems to be relieved by having a vasectomy reversal. Now we don't think that this is his problem now but it could have been. I think that doctors should also cover the psychological effects vasectomies can have on men too. I read many posts and articles about men having trouble dealing with this after the surgery. (Again fortunately this is not Dave's issue.)
I feel fortunate that we think Dave's problem has been properly diagnosed finally. I just wanted to share what I discovered during this tough time and hope it can help others make an informed decision when it comes to vasectomies.
Feel free to share your opinion about this or share what's ticking you off this Tuesday in the comments or leave a link.
UPDATE: Turns out Dave actually has. Interstitial Cystisis He had to see several doctors before he found one who could correctly
diagnose him. Many doctors thought he was seeking meds. He didn't care
what they gave him as long as it took away the pain. He is on a
non-narcotic medication that does that. He still has flare ups but they
are more manageable and shorter. He current doctor is a god send. If
you are not getting answers and solutions to medical problems I
encourage you to seek second, third and forth opinions
Here is a short post about a drug shortage for his IC medication.
And another post when we thought he had Prostatitis.
11 comments:
Yikes. Thanks for the info. My husband has been considering the big V, and I've been hesitant since I hate to make any 'permanent' decisions. I wonder if the reversal is covered by insurance in the event of PVP?
Hope Dave is feeling better very soon!
Yowza! All that from a "simple" procedure? My husband keeps insisting that he needs the procedure so we don't have an oops, but this will make me think twice.
Thanks for posting on such a personal yet importnat issue.
wow - I had no idea! I too, was thinking it would be less risky for my husband to be snipped then for me to be tied...we haven't done either, yet, and now I'm rethinking both after reading this!
Hope your husband is pain free now! What an awful thing to go through.
wow - interesting stuff - this is the first I have heard of this and I know so many men who have had the big V!
Thanks for sharing this. My hubs has considered a V and I second your notion about the V vs tubal. There are risks with both. My sister had a tubal ligation and then later had a tubal pregnancy that nearly killed her. That's my big reason for a "no thanks."
This is important information and I am glad you posted about it.
I just leaned back and asked the hubs if he has post-vasectomy pain. Nope. I had to ask though since you know sometimes men think they have to "man up".
I NEVER heard of such a thing. Who knew?! I'm glad that you were able to find out exactly what was going on and now can go forward in a fix.
There is NO permanent procedure that does NOT have side effects. You are taking a perfectly well performing organ and "fixing" it, meaning breaking it.
Tubal Ligations are no better.
Sorry your husband was/is in pain. There is a link between prostatits and vasectomies. There are many more, but I'd review this site by a man who went through a vasectomy.
http://www.dontfixit.org/
"Now we don't think that this is his problem now but it could have been." Will you please explain what you meant by this? Thanks.
Mr.4444 had a vascectomy, and it went very well, except for the speeding ticket I got as a result (it's a long story, heehee)
I hope your hubs is back to normal soon!
I was a very healthy, active man. Since vasectomy, five years of testicular pain, prostatitis and now autoimmune connective tissue disease. Sperm in blood causes the body to attack itself. Docs say 1 in 1000 will experience problems. More like 6 - 15%. The make $900 in 20 minutes for vas. Dont want to rock that boat. There is no real tracking of post vasectomy pain victims. Were all "happy customers" as far as they are concerned. It's a real travesty. read dontfixit.org and BELIEVE what you read. its real! -JH
Which is better? vasectomy or tubal ligation reversal
Ok I just sat here and typed out a long breakdown of my story telling all about what I have been through after my vasectomy. Then I hit post and the sight took me to another page were I had to set up a profile which I thought I had already done...then when I finished it brought me back to here and my comment is gone...Ok, long story short, I had a vasectomy, my boy parts hurt a lot, doctors think I'm crazy, lots of money spent on meds that do nothing. Man my other comment was so much better.
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